Thank you, Kakak!

Another shot to improve my (casual) writing skill, after a long loooooooong time.

Hi! How have you been? 

Today, I am going to throw some stuffs on mind which is probably soooo random, but I guess that's okay, like, hello this is my blog, tho. So last night, I had a call with my sister (by heart instead of blood). I miss her wholeheartedly, not because we've been knowing each other for so long, but the fact that she's always being the way she is. I value our friendship so much since it's so rare to have a friend who can be so truthful about yourself, that she didn't hesitate to remind me or even warn me if I did something wrong. I mean, when lots of people hide behind that "don't wanna hurt someone's feeling", I still am thinking that somehow we need to be slapped to realize that somehow we do wrong, we make mistakes, and a true friend won't keep in silence. I personally happy if somebody remind me, of course in polite way, just as she did. Well, I'll just write what we had in our conversation last night, in hope it can be our friendly reminder.

• Calm, whatever how tough your days, it's going to pass. Relax, take a break, all is fine.
• Get out from your comfort zone. It's normal that the more we grow up, the more scares and worries we have, but that's only about perspective. Try to see from another perspectives, bad things aint always bad (if we see from different perspective). And in case we forget, the more obstacles challenges we have, the more lessons we'll get.
• You have your own rhythm, no need to follow others, no need to follow the stream (except the positive side). People are basically kind, but somehow they do wrong. When they do wrong, don't get involved. People are gossiping? Calm, you always have an option to leave them. Do not listen, do not try to get involved in somebody's business (moreover for personal life), you don't need to know everything. You can choose and filter what's going to bring you advantages for future.
• Focus on your target, starting is always the hardest part, yet still, need to be started. You need to kick it off.
• Lots of activities you can take that can enrich you (mentally, spiritually, or even in terms of knowledge), instead of just having fun (hanging out, shopping, going somewhere). Don't forget to study, to learn, to prepare everything. What people call luck is somehow just opportunity meets preparation. Oh well said.

Oh poor me, my memory got weaker these days. I should've made notes while we had a fruitful conversation on phone. To sum up, I am forever grateful, forever thankful for having such a lovely Kakak like her. Having a conversation with her is such a precious time, won't be wasted, my brain was always pushed to think, to analyze something. Oh, finally, after a while, I got a chance to use my brain hahahaha.

Mmm, dunno what to write for more, should I just stop here? Maybe yes, for this post. Going to think some ideas to be the next post. Thanks for reading.

I love you,

xx